Need some light shed on my situation

I had sex with a long time friend idk we both just got a out of a relationship that I know of so I was lonely ofc and we talked about sex and protection and things before hand we discussed a lot as in we probably weren’t going to use protection with each other but I guess I wanted to listen to my body made a mistake of not continuing to use protection with him he’s just my friend we were just fucking that’s all not sure if he was catching feelings but I was and was enjoying them I gotta call that I had gonorrhea but it seems like he doesn’t know that because he wants to have sex again and so do I but I’m not going to ofcourse and the last time we had we got in the argument because he took the condom off I’m not sure if we didn’t clearly talk about things but we kept doing it unprotected and he’s had it for months because I didn’t and don’t talk to to him so I guess he doesn’t know he had it I’m seeing him tonight for the first time in a few and I’m gonna tell him no sex unless he gets tested but I’m still not having sex with him after the fact so do I say as in words u should go get tested or say something else tbh I’m not gonna lie I’m sure I’m pregnant by him now so not try n start anything with him cuz I’m gonna have to tell him in a few