Any wives relate?

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My love is NOT unconditional. My love most definitely has conditions, boundaries, communication, respect and reciprocation. My vows to you are null and void if you cannot respect my love. And I’m at the point where I’m like FUCK THIS SHIT.  Thank you for my child but fuck this.

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Did your husband hurt you before? You sound hurt 😞

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This has been the worst experience and I’m sure there are people out there who have it worse. i.e. get cheated on or beaten.  But that does not give anyone permission to treat someone however they decide. And then give me the option to have a husband that has these qualities (and cheats or beats) or the husband who does right by those two factors. That’s wrong. I wanna cry but am so angry I cannot. He wants a women with the tittle “wife” but wants me to act as if I’m his mother, maid, bookkeeper, timekeeper, roommate, etc to him it’s a business deal. Im being trained to be a single mother. What’s the point of having a partner if they are just going to stare at you do everything? And then turn around and tell you (me) that I’m the wrong one???   That I miss treat him, I take advantage of him? Then will give me the silent treatment for voicing my concerns! That’s manipulation that is abuse. I’ve seen it happen right in front of my eyes growing up. Im not that bitch. I love nobody enough to take advantage of me that way. Yes, I am making my arrangements. In silence.

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If therapy can’t fix it and you did all you can I understand your choice

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Yes I am beyond hurt right now and y’all are the only ones I have to talk to. But dumbass me decided to move away from everything I know for “love” (this mf) and I have no family or friends out here.

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Oooo girl if you're to that point it sounds like it's time to make other arrangements....that doesn't sound like a good marriage at all.

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