3rd loss 😩

So may last year I experienced my first ever miscarriage well fell pregnant right after and then that ended I’m In an ectopic and having my left tube removed.. the 2nd January this year I had a positive test 2 weeks ago we seen our little bean at 6weeks with a flickering heartbeat then to go back Saturday for a routine check up to be told baby stopped growing at 6weeks I’m currently now experiencing a missed miscarriage and waiting to take my tablets to end the pregnancy 😩😭 the nhs still won’t run tests as I have to have 3 miscarriages.. as the ectopic isn’t classed as one.. how much pain physically and emotionally does a woman have to go through to get the help 😢