Opinions on my chances?!

Ok so this is my calender for my last fertile week. We tried to do the smep plan but the third night dh was so sick he couldn't even move :( 
Now I'm about 9 dpo and I am having sore nipples, nausea, slight dizziness, a lot of cm, and I'm peeing like every hour and that's beyond unusual for me BC I'm a teacher so I'll usually only go once at lunch and then not again until  after 3.  I took a test yesterday but of course it was to early so a bfn:(