Career conflict

My husband is a DJ which involves night life, lots of hoochies and lots of alcohol. That's great. He loves it, I'm all for seeing him do what he loves. But I'm in the military so I work 14 hour days and I'm extremely exhausted and would rather sleep wknds but of course my husband would like me dressed up and on the DJ's arm for the night as his support but I'm into the night life nor do I wanna give up sleep to be around drunks, cigarette and hookah smoke accompanied by loud music. What do I do? What's the compromise in this situation?