What would you do?
Alright! So it's been awhile since I've had a boyfriend. My first and last was two years ago and ugh he cheated and was an abusive controlling bastard. Dumping him was one of the best things I've ever done and it's overall changed how I view myself and given me the biggest confidence boost ever.
Anyways, after happily engaging in casual sex, flings, and fuckbuddies (all safe, no STD's here) I was content, but I've recently started dating this guy. He's a total sweetheart and we're 100% open and honest with one another.
To get to the point, after we started dating this girl mailed him a letter, it was really cute hands down an adorable letter, but it's the fact that it came from a girl he's been avoiding for five years that bothers me.
I am by no means a jealous or possessive person and I do in fact encourage him to talk about whatever the bad blood between them is about because I think that to fully move on you have to first confront any misgivings that you have with someone. A sense of "closure" to be exact.
It irks me that she's trying to make contact at the start of our relationship though. It just feels like she's trying to pry or something you know? I feel that it might have to do with him just getting out of a two year relationship a few months ago, but the last thing I want is for her to cause unneeded drama, and my boyfriend and I both know he's got a soft spot for her.
What would you all do? Am I setting myself up for failure by letting him have the freedom to talk to her?
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