Would you leave if there was no sexual chemistry? If you husband never desired you no matter what toys, lingerie,sexy thing you do? Could you live almost sexless because he never wants it?

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There is no medical problem, he never wants sex..I have tried it all

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I could live like that no problem. I love my husband and being near him. Sex isn't a huge thing to us. He had surgery on his testicles to try and correct his fertility issue and there was no sex for 3 months and it was fine. We spent a lot of time laughing, snuggling, reading, and just being together.

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I had a period of time like this with my husband. It lasted about two years. It took that long to figure out what the issue was. He needed me to have the house clean! I didn't feel like being a good wife if he didn't even want me sexually so I just kind of gave up but it turns out that he couldn't respect or desire me when I wouldn't do the one thing that really made his day better and that was important to him (a comfortable clean home). I had to change my behavior before his changed. And again, it took two years to figure that out. Now, three years of a wonderful sexual relationship later, I am so grateful to have stuck it out. My husband and I are closer than ever. You have to have a "forever" mindset. Don't allow yourself to think there's a way out. In my opinion, marriage is forever, and thus, you'll stick through anything and do whatever it takes to get that relationship enjoyable again. Have you tried marriage counseling?

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Maybe try talking to someone? Maybe this is all due to lack of communication,now that would be a silly reason to leave your husband. Ask him what's on his mind, maybe it has nothing to do with you. I know if something is weighing heavy on my mind I can't get in the mood.

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I understand wanting sex, but that is not a good enough reason to leave your husband. If you're married to this guy I would hope it isn't just because of your sex life. I would hope it's because you love him for everything that he is.

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I would never leave my husband. We waited til marriage to have sex and so out marriage isn't based off sex. We make each other feel loved in so many other ways, so sex isn't the focus. That is just the choice we made and I am by no means pushing my beliefs on you or telling you what to do.

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Personally i couldnt live without sex.  I go thru phases tho. One month ill want it constantly and the next month im ok with once a week. I dont know why, like i dont think differently about my husband. I just think all our bodies go thru phases at different times. But to not ever have sexual chemistry is a little odd. Gay possibly ?

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I need sexual chemistry. For me, sex is linked with emotion in my relationships. So it's never "just sex".

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Its more to a marriage than just sex. But do you wait for him to make a move and he never does? Or do and he rejects it? Try asking him whats wrong. What u can do to assist in the matter. If that doesn't work, he's cheating.

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My mom always says that if you are not having sex with your husband there is something wrong. Anything from medical emotional etc. There is a problem somewhere. You just have to talk to find out what it is

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I feel bad voting yes, cuz I don't have a huge sex appetite, but I need a man that wants me sexually. That's just what I need. So yes I probably would leave.

Would you leave if there was no sexual chemistry? If you husband never desired you no matter what toys, lingerie,sexy thing you do? Could you live almost sexless because he never wants it?

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