I just don't know.

Haley • Madly in love with my best friend♡
I don't know what to think or feel. To start, I'm currently on my period. I'm depressed, hormonal, miserable ect. My boyfriend and I have been fighting alot lately. But for about a week we've been doing good. We've been getting along and everything. But with both of our work schedules we don't talk as much anymore. He doesn't tell me how he feels anymore, he isn't as affectionate as he used to be. We've been together for a year. We'll tonight I got off work early and I came home n we barely spoke. So we were laying in bed, and i asked him if he still felt the same, he said why are you asking me this right now. I said because we never talk anymore, like a deep talk. He said I'm tired and I don't wanna talk about it right now, can we talk about it tomorrow?. I said no I want to now. So I asked him again, and he said I don't feel exactly the same but I still love you. I said what do you mean not exactly the same. But he said he didn't wanna talk about it tonight cause he's tired. But he started to get shitty with me. He rolled over and I started to talk to him again about it and he yelled at me n said he was tired n doesn't want to talk. BUT I DO! We never talk anymore. . Am I over reacting, cause I'm hormonal and depressed and over thinking it. Or do you think that something is up. I don't know how to feel right now. I have the biggest knot in my stomache. Advice please? All I wanted to do was talk..
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Li

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Well he made it clear he was tired and war open to talking, but not then. It's natural for a relationship of that time length to have ups and downs... just set aside time to talk, when he's up for our, don't force an unpleasant conversation on him when he expresses he wants to do it the next day. I'd be pissed if my bf did that to me. When I'm tired, I get really snippy so I'd cut him slack there.

Li

Lindsay • Jan 31, 2015
any time! best of luck to you!

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Haley • Jan 31, 2015
Your right. I think I have to start looking out for myself, and doing what I think is right for me. thank you for your advice. I really appreciate it

Li

Lindsay • Jan 31, 2015
honestly, it sounds like you can do better and you've tried this far... no one is going to fault you for throwing in the towel after a year. seriously. you gotta do what's right for you, but only you know what that is.