is he out of control or am I just overreacting?

so I have this bf & were long distance & we agreed to not shave. well I went to the doctor (bc I have bad cramps & late periods) so I knew she was gonna check me down there. so I shaved well I tell him everything & he got mad & now thinks I'm cheating on him. well I explained it to him & now he said my pubic hair is "too long" wtf? I shaved Friday! but ok, so last night he told me that I have to shave again today AT THE SAME TIME (4) & show him my pubic hair again on Monday night to see if it's the same length. like wtf? I told him I shouldn't have to prove anything bc im not cheating. but he said I have to & it's not the same length he's gonna think I'm automatically cheating on him & he's gonna break up with me. I don't want him thinking that but at the same time I don't like being controlled like that. he should trust me we've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now.. advice?:(💔💔💔💔😔