Would you be mad?

Question

Ok so I'm 5 weeks and 6 days..  I meet my bf and his friends at the hooka bar last year.. An me and my bf haven't been hanging out much since we got our own place Cuz of bills.. Well since I find out I'm pregnant we haven't been hanging out Cuz I don't want anyone to know tell I'm further along. 
 A friend called my bf asking to go hang out at the hooka bar. He said oh let me ask monica.. I hate how he always blames me instead of just coming up with something. Thing is for anyone who never been to that bar it's smoky and all my friends would be wanting me to try there flavor so they would know something's up if I don't smoke it.  I'm irritated that my bf couldn't just make something up instead of making it sound like its my fault he dosent go out anymore.. It's all starting to hit me how my life is changing now that I'm pregnant.. Idk would any of you ladys be a little upset about the situation?

Answer

No. I think its great your man wants your opinion or uses you as an excuse. My man doesnt do anything without asking me and I don't with out asking him. He also uses me as an excuse whenever he wants. I dont mind. Someone invites him to hamg out he doesnt want to if he doesnt have a valid reason he just says sorry cant my wife wants to hang out. Its perfectly fine.

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My husband and I use each other as excuses all the time. It works great because no one questions it.

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My husband tells people he's gonna check with me all the time, has nothing to do with me saying no... Sometimes we made other plans and he forgot, or I had something planned. It's just being adults in a respectful, mature relationship.

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If it bothers you, don't write a post asking if it would bother someone else, instead talk to him about it. Personally I think you're overreacting. I use my husband as an excuse all the time, and he uses me. It's not the end of the world. Next time, if you're ok with it, let him go and make up an excuse why you didn't. Headache, period cramps, whatever. Yall will have to make up excuses for a while til you tell about the pregnancy anyway b

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He wants to be with you! Plus it's great he may be thinking of your opinion anyhow. Do you want him to go to that place? You have what sounds like a good guy. Signs he'll be there for your child. Don't be mad, be glad

Would you be mad?

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