Too young??? Rant

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We are TTC, i am 23 hubby is 30. he already has a kid. We've been married since 2years.
 Every time i tell someone that we want to have a baby soon, their reaction is "yeah... but you are so young!!!"  So whaaaat?! It makes me so mad, it's like they telling me i am not good enough to have a baby!!! Its like if someone in their late 20's early 30's tells me they trying for a baby and i would be like "yeah... But you are so old!!". Im sure they would get offended too!

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Too young?? Lol no no.. They should save that speech for the teeny poppers (12-17 age) for one your over the age to be an adult (you can buy a beer at the bar) plus two y'all are married..  I guess it's one of those situations where people don't have a filter, and you just gotta smile and say well I don't think so.

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Maybe they mean you should experience more of life and enjoy the time with each other before you have kids.

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23 might not be too early to be having children but by getting so upset over what other people say,you come across as very immature to be having a child. Time to grow up and start taking things in stride because young mother's often get judged very harshly, even if it's not fair

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I'm 21 and am ttc with my second right now. I don't tell many people so no one says that to me but bet they would. If it's what you want fu#k the haters :)

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Both myself and my husband are 20 and we'll be 21 when our first arrives...we are young. I think you're just fine to do what you want.

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Some times ppl don't kno how to say exactly wat they mean! !! Some ppl probably saying it might be best if you accomplish all of goals,  if u haven't finished school maybe do that,  start your career, Try to enjoy the first stage of honeymooning of marriage, spend time with each other etc. Some ppl maybe trying to warn you that once u have children everything changes! !!! However,  sometimes it difficult for ppl to communicate wat they're trying to say! !! And some ppl just can't accept the fact that you're grown!!!! You're always be a youngster to some ppl tho! !! I hope this helps

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Too young?? No way! If you're in a stable relationship then go for it! Don't worry about what everyone else has to say.

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I'm 24, have been with my husband for 6 years, married for one, and we're expecting our first child in February. He is 32. You are not too young and don't listen to what anyone says. As long as you guys have your stuff together and can provide a safe and healthy environment for a child then do what you want!!

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I had my 1st at 21 and I separated from my husband and met my SO and when we had his 1st I was 25 (almost 26) and he was 29 (almost 30) of course that was my 2nd..... Now I'm pregnant wth our last one his 2nd my 3rd & let me tell you it is much harder this time around! I think you r a perfect age and there's no guarantee that it'll happen tmrw it may tale a year to concieve actively trying so you may actually be closer to 24 when the lol one is born.......m Screw what they say!!! Do what makes yall happy

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I'm 20 and on my second, had my first at 19. Both my babies were planned

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