am i expecting to much??!?

okay...I'm feeling neglected. when me and my so first got together he used to do all kinda of sweet things and I know every relationship has a the whole honey moon phase I have tried to talk to him tell him how I feel but he says sorry hell fix it but nothing really changes. I know things are crazy right now BC we have his two kids now full time and were fighting for custody but I've even told him I just want you to write a little note pick a flower out of the yard something you don't have to spend any money and still nothing now its being to mess with our sex life. we have put TTC on hold or at least aren't trying as hard anymore I basically have no sex drive anymore BC it just seems like a quicky and its over idk what else to do. I love him and I don't want to give up.