I've been with my DH since I was 16 years old. I am now 28. We have been married 8 of our 11 years together. I just don't know how to bring the excitement back. We are like roommates who coparent raising kids than actual lovers and friends. Our marriage had suffered a great blow due to his infidelity years ago. It kind of ruined our friendship. We have no love life now. How do I fix such a boring and under stimulating marraige?? Doesn't seem he will ever do anything about it. Is it over?