Lost the connection.. Advice please 😔

Me and my boyfriend used to have the best sex ever.. We would have intimate sex, passionate sex, sometimes just kinky and freaky sex.. All of it great. I felt like we connected on so many levels without sex than when we did have sex it just topped off the whole relationship.. But the last few times we had sex (it's been about 3 1/2 weeks, were in a long distant relationship) i felt so.. Disconnected from him. I just felt like I was just laying there, getting humped. It was not enjoyable at all (no it wasn't rape) and we've talked about it since than on many different occasions. We are both horny and sexually frustrated because we haven't seen each other but I told him that the next time we have sex I want that connection back with him. I even told him maybe we should stop having sex for the time being.. I dont know.. I just want that sexual bond back with my man. Any tips? Advice? 

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