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So I recently just turned 20. I've never been in an actual relationship, never kissed anyone & I'm still a virgin. I'm not trying to rush anything because I know it'll happen when it's supposed to happen. Sometimes I wanna get it out of the way. I just feel embarrassed about it sometimes.

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I was 19 when I lost my virginity, I was so embarrassed because I literally didn't know anyone else that was(including my younger sister) so I met up with this guy that I hadn't seen since high school and one thing led to another and I lost it that night. I was happy to get it out of the way and had no intention of ever seeing him again. We're married now with a 1yr old and another on the way. It's funny how things happen sometimes

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I lost my virginity when I was almost 21 and I don't regret waiting. He was my first real boyfriend and I  thought I was going to marry the guy but of course I didn't. I worried for years before
Losing my virginity that I was going to have to have to awkward convo with a man to tell him that I was a virgin. My friends always made fun of me but I didn't care. When I talked to my
Ex about it prior to losing my
Virginity and he was really understanding and even though he didn't want to admit it, he was excited that it could be him that would take it. Some men are intrigued by a women who has been untouched and some
Will be scared away but if the person loves
You, it won't matter to them. You are still so young, I know you feel like you missed the boat when it comes to having sex but trust me you didn't. You will find the right person eventually. If you just give it away randomly your emotions and self esteem are
Going to take a huge hit. You
Will feel like a unloved piece of meat.
Just hang there. I know it's easier said then done but what I tried to do was focus more on making myself a better person and a happier person and then out of nowhere, I met my first boyfriend. Try not to worry about what other people think about your virginity. When you lose it, let it be to someone you love. Honestly, I've been there.

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Thanks for replying. You're right I just want to lose it to someone who cares about me. I wouldn't want it any other way.  Just feels like I'm never gonna meet anyone worth losing it to.

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