Where to lose my virginity

So I'm 18 and still a Virgin, though not really by choice. Every time I meet a guy whilst drinking and I want to sleep with him I always have this dilemma on where to go😕 like I don't  want to take him back to mine as my dad would probably kick his head in (ex army and over protective), but I don't feel comfortable going back to his thanks to all those horror films haha. Only option then is a hotel room which I just can't afford and it's starting to frustrate me so much