Just needing to vent

My SO & I were TTC, & as the date comes closer to us taking the test ( b/c he wanted a  our anniversary to be the day we find out) & symptoms become more noticeable I start to show concern about if he'd love me with the stretch marks & through the whole process  ( I know I know). So today I sat him down and asked a couple of questions & he freaks out say " I knew you weren't ready & you not being ready means you won't be the best mom you can be ... Ect .. This was a big mistake b/c now your second guessing ". Like I just caught a small case of fear b/c what if my body won't go back to its original shape or what if .. What freaking if .. Is all I just wanted to be reassured that I was going to have someone by my side. Now we are in a big big big fight b/c now I'm being over emotional...