Help...

Jimi Gail • I'm married almost 5 yrs to my best friend, Brandon. We've been TTC baby #2. We have a 12 yr old. I'm scared that my excessive weight may be keepin me from conceiving. Thoughts?
I'm actively ttc and today makes 60 days exactly since my last period. I am never late. I've taken a few pregnancy tests throughout the 60 days and all were negative. I'm 39 could I be starting menopause already?