No sex drive
I didnt have much of a sex drive befor being pregnant but now that my LO is here i have absolutly no desire for sexual contact and its driving a huge wedge in my marriage. Granted my baby is only 5 weeks old and i havnt been given the go ahead by my dr yet to have sex but im pretty sure shes going to tell me everythings good to go.
Part of the not wanting sex is bc i feel discusting and fat and jiggly. Ive always had low self esteem. Im also breadt feeding so my boobs are always sore and i dont want him to touch them but if i tell him that he will get mad. I also don't want them to leak while we are having sex. I would be so embarrassed.
The other part is just because i have never had much of a sex drive and now i just have none. I was taking labido pills befor i got pregnant which seemed to help a tiny little bit but impretty sure i cant take them while breast feeding.
Im afraid my marriage is going to fall apart. My husband asks me all the time why i dont like having sex with him and i dont have an answer. I just dont like sex. I think i might be asexual. I find men attractive and i fibd my husband attractive, its not like i just think everybody is discusting. Ive just never been sexual. I dont want to be alone for the rest of my life because of this. I dont know what to do.
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