what do you guys think??

I am 14 years old and I recently met my boyfriend at a soccer convention in Hayward CA. I live elsewhere, however my dad has family there and he went on a night out with old friends, and let me go there on my own. I felt uncomfortable, because all of the people at the convention were older boys, 17-18, and I felt like I was getting some weird looks. I made my way to the back of the building and listened to music. He came up next to me and sat down. He introduced himself, like a gentlemen, told me about his family, and asked about mine as well. There was a very strong connection. The night began to wind down and as everyone was leaving, he grabbed my hand and took me around the back of the warehouse where there were dozens of rolling Hayward hills. I texted my dad, and told him to pick me up at 11, because I was "watching a presentation". we layed under the stars and made out. nothing far too sexual, but it wasn't innocent. he really seemed to like me. He called me every other night, and texted me at least once a day. I saw him again, when my family went up to Alameda for a party (where he lives). The party was at a large community church, with a library and a gym in the back. I showed up and went into the gym, where he waited for me with flowers. He plugged his phone into the sound system and we slow danced for a long time. It began to escalate, and he picked me up and I wrapped my legs around him. He carried me into the gym's locker room and we began taking off our clothes. I was a virgin and so was he, and we made an agreement that whatever happened between us, we wouldn't regret out first times, even though we are very young. I won't add in all the details but we had shower sex, and it was truly magical. Like a movie scene, he was gentle and kind and he treated me like a princess. He loved every part of my body and I felt safe. I have met with him one other time, and he took me to downtown Oakland where we had a real date. I don't plan on telling my parents for a lot of reasons. He is African American and I am white. *this is not a racist thing* but I'm just not sure how my parents would react, and I wouldn't want to put him in any uncomfortable positions. anyways, I'm just curious about your guys opinions on my relationship, it's very unique and I want some input. Is it really crazy that I've already had sex?? Should I tell my parents???