Postpartum affection

I understand that hormones and emotions run wild after giving birth. I understand that for mom there's little to no want to touch or be touched by other than the child. I understand sex is out the window for at least 4 to 6 weeks and I understand that this is all normal. I'm just having a hard time understanding being almost pushed away when I try to show simple affection, such as holding her hand or giving a hug or simply putting my arm around her while we enjoy a little peace while our baby sleeps. I, as most people, hate and fear rejection, but after 2 weeks of no affection, I'm starting to get a little frustrated and I don't want to cause issues, drama or problems. I jokingly asked if it would kill her to show a little affection and her response was would it kill me to not have any. It makes me feel like we're just a team raising a baby, without the relationship.

No it won't kill me, but if it keeps up I fear it'll slowly kill our relationship. I know some of you are thinking, then I'll be responsible for the slow killing, but I disagree. As needy as I sound, or acting like a baby, I strongly feel that a little love goes a long way.