For those who get offended by abortion posts.
I can understand feeling uncomfortable at the thought of abortion when other girls bring it up, I really do. But really? I read an innocent abortion-related post and of course, there were commenters who were so badly offended saying things like:
-Your post is insensitive
-There are women who try for years and can't conceive
And of course, my two favorites
-You might regret it later
-Have you considered adoption?
First off, I've had an abortion and I DO NOT regret it at all. So for those who are considering abortion due to their life circumstance or simply bc you don't want to be a parent yet/not ready, or whatever the reason...you CAN have an abortion without regretting it! 😁 I promise.
Secondly, for those that are so adamant about convincing women to go for adoption rather than abortion, I personally feel that if I were to carry a pregnancy to full term, I'd want to raise that child myself! Pigs will fly before I allow my kin to be raised by someone who wasn't myself or his/her father. But before you call me selfish, people are quick to suggest adoption...but not about adopting themselves! Statistically, there are more abortions than adoptions occurring, and most of the babies that are given up for adoption end up in foster homes! So why do people think adoption but refuse to think of the fact that the baby will be placed in a "system" and may possibly not be raised in a stable, living home all throughout his/her life??? Such a double standard. If you're gonna suggest adoption, maybe think about whether YOU would adopt or not.
My second point leads to my last point regarding people who use the argument, "there are women who's been TTC for years!" My question is, if it's taking you years with no success, why not adopt????????? Oh. So most people would rather have their own kid than to adopt? Weird.
Idk. I just feel like women should be free to post their abortion stories or talk about it on here without being shamed by mostly hypocrites, quite frankly. In the grand scheme of things, everyone's story is different and the opinions of strangers (no matter how strong) won't change what a person decides to do...so they should either be supportive (bc cmon, we all like support, right?) or not comment at all. But that's my opinion, take it or leave it...I won't lose a minute of sleep either way 😁. I already know I'm gonna get hate, maybe for even how I came off lol. But I won't be responding to bigotry or any other comment for that matter. You ladies have a lovely day. 💜
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