How would you feel if you found out your SO once paid for sex?

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And I don't mean a high quality escort. What if they got "serviced" from a back alley prostitute in the past? How would you feel?

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As long as he didn't catch anything why should I be worried? It was in his PAST..

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Well it would have been a long time ago when i didn't know him so it wouldn't have any effect on our relationship now. But i'd still think it was disgusting and low of him.

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I'd think gross, gross, and gross...

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As long as his sexual health is fine, what's the difference between that and one night stands with random girls he just met?

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Lol, my husband  (way before I met him) went to Canada while in the military, and he was trying to lose his virginity, and decided that a prostitute was his option..... So he drank heavily, and ended up passing out in the snow. Right before he passed out, he handed her $100 for her trouble, and she actually stood there watching out for him until he regained consciousness. Didn't rob him or mess with him in any way. I always thought it was kinda cute. And honestly, if he had gone through with it, it was 10 years before I ever met him, and I don't think it would have bothered me.

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I wouldn't want to picture my husband living a seedy lifestyle out there as a "John", using women for sex work. The past is the past, yes, but it wouldn't sit well with me.

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I wouldn't be too happy about it..

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As long as he is still free and not cheating then I don't care.

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I'd just laugh at him, honestly. and ask how desperate he was😂

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What's the difference if he picked up some random chick at a bar for the night? As long as he didn't catch anything it's whatever. And he'll never have to do it again so no big deal. Lol

How would you feel if you found out your SO once paid for sex?

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