Sad and torn

My husband and I currently live in Mississippi. I work a very stressful job with little pay. I even had a miscarriage because of the stress. I was offered a job in Illinois that's less stressful, kinda easy, and twice my current salary. I'm excited but my husband says he's not going. He says we can live apart and see each other monthly because he doesn't wanna tell me not to accept the job. I have to move in a couple weeks and I'm so sad. I don't want to be away from my love 27 out of 30 days a month but I can't not take this job. I'm so torn...