Can my ex sue me for not taking my birth control correctly?
I am 18 and he just turned 21 about 5 days ago. Long story short my ex and I broke up 2 weeks ago. I was on the pill. It was making me throw up and so that would make it inneffective. And our birth control failed and now I'm late and he asked me what I want if I am. I said probably keep it and he's pushing for an abortion. And he was hanging up on me (he lives an hour away). And he was calling me an idiot and smartass for saying no to abortion right now if I am. And he told me he wishes he never met me and can't wait to get me out of his life. And he was swearing at me and yelling at me and telling me that I'm the most immature person for telling him and saying I would keep it. It is horrible... I am going running tomorrow. I dropped 11 pounds in 2 weeks because of the stress and lack of support from him. And I am just really scared. It is really scary. I obviously don't want someone like that in my life, but we were going to Planned Parenthood tomorrow and I'm getting tested for everything. And he's just laughing at me.
He is so angry at me.... Telling me that immature and in it for money and that one just doing it to get with him
He was yelling at me to get an abortion if I am. Like almost screaming into the phone. It was horrifying.. And I was balling on the phone and then he says why I am so chill about it. He is toxic.
He thinks I'm framing him and he is flying off the handle. Quite verbally abusive. He was also saying how stupid and worthless I am and how stupid and low paying my job is, which is my everything.
He is being very very harsh... he is acting like I'm able to fertilize myself. Like I can stop my bodies normal functions. He told most of his friends and his sister and his parents about it and I told him to just keep this between us until we know it's pos.
It is really embaressing.. And I was telling him my feelings and he told me to grow up and take control of what "I did". Idk.. I don't think something is right in his brain, I know that sounds really rude of me..
He started talking and made me the problem. Manipulation.
He asked what I want to do if I am pregnant. And I said possible keep the baby. And then a minute later he yelled at me and kept shouting "WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT CAROLYNN WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT YOU KNOW HOW FUCKING STUPID YOU SOUND RIGHT NOW SAYING YOU'D KEEP IT SHUT UP. YOU ARE GETTING THAT BABY KILLED OUT OF YOU."
And then he hangs up.
They think I did this all on purpose to get money from the family and get back together with him.
The mom even took the plan B out of the cupboard.
Would've been nice to know you had that in the house, but they instear blamed me for not asking.
And with his verbal attacks, it is my body. I understand if he is nervous. But I won't tell him to grow up or get a life. Saying that if I am and I keep it that I will never find a man who wants me and that I will never get my nursing degree? I was valvictorian of my class this year when I graduated.
He knows what to say to hurt me. It is horrible. He know my nursing degree is #1 in my life. And he enjoys shoving me down.
You should have heard him on the phone. .. I couldn't even get a word in with all of the cussing and downgrading remarks. He would constantly say "YOU KNOW WHAT. THIS IS ALL YOU FAULT. I HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS SITUATION. NOTHING AT ALL AND NOW YOU A PULLING SHIT AND INSTEAD OF KILLING THE THING YOU WANT TO RUIN YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE THE REASON FOR THIS PROBLEM. I DID NOTHING."
And he was like "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU SAYING YOU WANT AN ABORTION. DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF RIGHT NOW. IF YOU ARE I'M PAYING FOR THE ABORTION AND YOU ARE GRTTNG THAT ABORTION."
And so I would say "You don't have a uterus, so you have no say what is going on inside mine at the moment." And he yelled at me for using another body part term and hung up again.
He literally hung up on me because I was usually my brain.
I naturally cried on the phone and he told me to stop crying and stop freaking out and then when i was on the verge of crying (you know that weird unsteady voice you get with the lump in your throat) and he told me to stop making my voice sound all sharp and with a snippy attitude. And when I am listening to him he yells at me for being so calm.
And I know for a fact they are taking a toll on my body. I'm not nervous about the test. I was throwing up stomach acid this morning and dry heaving because I have nothing in my stomach.
I went from 109 to 98 in less than 2 weeks. I am only 5 ft so it I am naturally lighter.
He told me what is on the message text pictures attached to this.
He told me there will be no farther communication and so I am not ever talking to him again.
Do I legally have to him the pregnancy results?
Sorry for the long text here. It is just making me feel all like nothing.
If anything I'm nervous for his comments to me in the car.
Sigh...
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