what do you want? a boy or girl?

Question

I seriously can't stand answering this question anymore. People ask me what I personally want to have. And normally my answer is GIRL  because I have a bunch of bows and cute little girl stuff from when I was little. And then they want to get mad at me and say, "You should be happy to even get a healthy baby, why should I it matter what gender it is?"
No shit! Don't ask me what I want to have and then get mad because you asked a gender specific question. 
Of course I'll be happy with either a baby girl or a baby boy!  (Healthy or not) It's my baby. How can you not be happy?

Answer

Yes, I hate this question. I also hate when people assume which one I want or which would be better for me. For instance, a perfect stranger last weekend was saying how cute my boy was and then asked what we were having this time. I told her we decided not to find out and she said to me, "I hope you have a girl next time", and walked off.

Why does she hope that?! She just went on and on about my handsome boy and then decided I must be wanting a girl. Actually, I'd be content and happy with either. Her saying that made it seem like there is something wrong with having two boys or something! Crazy people.

what do you want? a boy or girl?

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