is it selfish of me?

So my SO asked me about what will happen during the delivery process and who will be in there. Of course I told him I want him in there, but I also want my father in there but my father only.... I don't want my mom in there because she likes to relate everything to her and she's already getting on my nerves as it is:/ and I don't want my SO's mom or dad in there because  his mother likes to take things to her hands and I don't want my baby passed around like a trophy... I wanna be able to love him and spend time with him before people come to see him... He didn't disagree with me but he defiantly seemed a little upset about:/ of course they'll be able to come see him as soon as he's born I just don't want them in there while I'm giving birth, I want them to wait...