needing a break!!

Don't get me wrong I love being a mom but I haven't had any me time since I had our first child 9 yrs ago and would just like a day or weekend away with my girl friends my husband has had plenty of nights where he didn't come home til 1 am from having a guys night at the bar after he got off work at 7pm.  I just feel like he thinks I don't need time to myself.