Ectopic Pregnancy first pregnancy

Been ttc for 10 years off and on. So it was a shock to me when the doctors came in and told me I was pregnant 😮😮😮. 6 days later several doctor visits and blood draws I get told its Ectopic 😟😟😟. It was my first pregnancy every after trying for so long. How do you get over losing your first? Now I am scared to try again and have to go through the same thing again. Has anyone else experience this and went on to have a normal health pregnany?