What would be the very first thing you say to your teenage (15-18) y/o daughter/ son when the tell you their pregnant/ got someone pregnant?

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Calmly tell them their options and cry later that night because my baby isn't a baby now.

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"You did what???🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀" Came to mind. There's no disputing that I'd be super pissed off and will give them an ear full before anything else. Cos after years of teaching someone to not do something/do something a certain way one would expect better. So yes I will let my disappointment known to them. You've done wrong. You will hear about it alright. After that we will see what the next step is to move on from the situation.

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Tell him he better get a job and support his baby. Smh.

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I would be supportive but not like "oh my gosh I'm so happy" supportive way but in the "I will help you raise you child" supportive way and I would sit down with both my kid and the other kid involved and talk to them and encourage them both to keep the child and I will let them both know that I will do anything to help them and that even means that will take temporary custody of the child if I have to but I doubt that will happen cause I will let both them know that I will let them live with us if it's okay with the other kids parents and I will help them raise the child and even if the other parents don't let the other kid live with us I will still help support and raise that child and I will also talk to the other kids parents and let them know what I have in mind and that's letting them live with me and my husband and I will help pay for the child and I will also help them pay for themselves until they can both get jobs and I will help make sure they stay in school and get a good education because I am a stay at home wife and i could provide myself as a free babysitter cause I will be the grandma and that will save them on wasting money on daycare and it would help them out a lot and help make sure they stay in school and it will help keep their stress levels down knowing that their baby is in good hands and if they have abortion or adoption in mind I will discourage those options when they have a much better way and much less heart breaking way right in front of them and the reason I discourage abortion is because I don't believe in abortions unless your life and the baby life is in danger it's sad to say but its a better option than losing both lives and they would both have the regret of killing their child and I don't want my child to have that type of regret following them around their entire life and I would discourage adoption because they would have the regret not giving their child away to random people and again I dont want my child to have that regret

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I would probably kind of freeze up for a minute, & then either go completely off on them, or take them in on arms and hug them. Then we'll discuss how they feel about it, see where their head is at and what they plan to do. Then discuss options. Reiterate that we will be there for them.

Not sure what mindset I would be in at the time, so depending on that I'd either tell them we will not be supporting another child so they'll have to get it together, or I'll be the grandma that will want the children around bed will do everything for. IDK. If that happens, we shall see.

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I would make them get rid of it if it was my child. I'd be the one left to look after it

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I think all of this sounds good on paper, but in the moment I'm sure a few expletives would come to mind first.

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Probably
 "uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh are you kidding? "

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No sense is shaming them. I'm 16 and if my 17 (almost 18) boyfriend got me pregnant, yeah my mom would be mad but she would talk with me about it.

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Congratulations! to him and his wife or to my daughter and her husband. 🎉🎉

What would be the very first thing you say to your teenage (15-18) y/o daughter/ son when the tell you their pregnant/ got someone pregnant?

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