am I over reacting?

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Im over here sick, because I'm pregnant like non- stop nauseous. And my boyfriend is out like an hour away, with all his friends, plus this one girl he knows I don't like, I had to find out they were all together by seeing something on Instagram. I think he should be here with me. I can't even get up because I'm going to throw up, am I over reacting? Or do I have a good reason..

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I had severe morning sickness and I was more than happy for my partner to go out whenever he wanted! I just wanted to be left alone, he would always text me to see if I wanted anything and when he came home always checked on me and if I needed him home would always come home, I think that's all you could ask if someone when all your doing is throwing up, I'm never sick so it also used to upset him seeing me so unwell and would say to me regularly he wishes he could do something and he felt useless which is why he always went out so he wouldn't have to see me so sick and feel useless and I really didn't care who he was out with either, I'm the 1 he's coming home too and I'm the 1 the chose to have a baby with, relax he just doesn't know what he could do to help and seeing you unwell might be upsetting for him xx

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I get where you're coming from but I think it's ok for him to go out and have a fun time with his friends. Just cause you're sick doesn't mean he has to stay home with you. My all day sickness (morning sickness) was pretty tough too. Lasted from 6 weeks till 22 weeks and I was throwing up multiple times every day.

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So... you want him to stay home and just watch you puke?! I get being upset about the girl and you should talk to him about that, but I also don't think he needs to just sit at home and be miserable watching you get sick.

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Is the problem that is he out? Or that he is out with her?

I see no issue with him spending time with friends but if you don't want him spending time with another girl then be mature and say something

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I mean you maybe a little over reacting in the fact you want him with you but I'm the same way right now and have been I'm 13 weeks rn.  But the fact that he's with a girl he knows you dont like and you had to find out thru Instagram.....  That's BS

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If I was sick and my boyfriend had some free time, I would want him to be by my side. I would do the same for him. In my relationship, we don't consider it making the other partner "miserable". We love each other and when you love someone, you won't care and will do everything to be by your partners side.

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Over reacting. You are going be going through that for several weeks. Is he supposed to sit and stare in your face until it stops?

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I was vomiting multiple times a day and was nauseous constantly from 6-18 weeks pregnant and I would never begrudge my partner going out. There is no way I'd have expected him to stay home with me this entire 12 weeks and just watch me throw up. When you're feeling shitty like that there's very little you can do to fix it let alone him. I mean I'd get it if there was another kid involved and he'd have to pick up the slack and help look after them but otherwise as long as he checks in and sends texts asking me how I was doing and came home if I was really desperate and like needed to go to hospital or something I'd prefer he go out rather than watch my attractive exorcist vomiting all night

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I would deffinintly be acting the same way

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I think you should tell him how you feel, if your that sick te him to stay home with you and if that girl makes you uncomfortable tell him you don't want him around her

am I over reacting?

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