Should I tell her?

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So I have this friend on Facebook I've known her for awhile (through school) we were never close or anything but if we see each other out we say hi and do the Facebook thing (likes and stuff like that) well I sometimes get on this app called 'hot or not' (real quick for those of you not familiar you post pics and other ppl rate you and it matches you with ppl locally who find you attractive and you them to me very inappropriate if your in a relationship) so I'm just on browsing and who do I come across but my friends husband and in his profile it says he's looking to date a girl 18-30 yo now this is where it gets sticky they just had a baby 2 weeks ago and they also have an older child together.. Im really torn because I would want to know if it was me but I don't want to possibly break up a family...

Accepted Answer

It's going to be heartbreaking for her, but I would send her the screenshot and say "this is very uncomfortable for me and I feel awful for telling you this but if I was in your shoes I would want to know. You can do what you want with this information, I just felt It was a moral responsibility on my part to let you know. Good luck"

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She deserves to know. :/ before anyone else sees it or worse. Poor woman.

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She just had a baby two weeks ago. Don't tell her. If anything I would send it to a family member (sister,mom or someone who knows her best) and say that you would want to know but you don't know her situation well enough to share with her personally, especially since she's so freshly postpartum.

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I would want to know and I wouldn't want it to be put off until I can figure it out somehow on my own. Especially if it's his first time and he hasn't been doing it long; perhaps they can nip it in the bud and work through any issues they may be having that might be contributing to it

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I think you should mind ur business u don't know this girl!!! Keep it moving...

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Tell her. I would want to know.

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If this were your very best friend, maybe you should tell her. Some random aquatintance? NO. Don't go stirring up drama just for the fun of it. You don't know their lives, and nobody needs to hear that with a two-week-old. Not your business!!

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While it's still pretty inappropriate for someone in a relationship (especially married with a new baby), I've heard of many people using that app as more of an ego boost to see what people would rate them, without any intentions to actually meet someone or even talk to them through the app.

That's certainly a tough spot to be in, I don't know what I would do if I were you either :/

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I wouldn't get into it. Especially since you guys aren't close, What's done in the dark will come to the light. Women has intuition, And it works. Some quicker than others.

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