How do i meet people with common interests without spending a fortune?

I want to meet ladies 25-35 that love jewelry making, healthy homemade cooking, do it yourself projects ( such as making a jewelry box or etc), dancing, fitness, and/or etc. There are dating sites out there but how do I meet women with these interests? I tried meetup but there are very few hobby groups and I hate forced conversation and meeting up just randomly for social groups on meetup. I am trying to stop being socially inept so I can live a happier life. Also how do I train myself to be more socially accepted. I am ultra sensitive, awkward, and don't know what to say in conversations. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!!!