interracial and eloping
I'm still a university student have a very long way to go before finishing. I'm 22 turning 23 and March. So I'm young but not "too young." Everyone my age has kids already! However, my boyfriend of 6 years and I are going to elope. We're going to get married at court and move in together by April. It took about 3 years for my mom to accept the idea that I'm with a Guatemalan man FROM Guatemala. For my dad, it's still taking some time. He loosened up a bit but is still not too happy about our relationship. I can understand a little where their racism comes from but after so long love doesn't have borders and a person shouldn't be generalized and viewed that race. I believe it's all about the person, not their skin color or country. My mom is Italian American and my dad is from Lebanon. They're not of the same ethnicity either. Yes, they're both white but that doesn't mean anything. I got engaged on New Years eve and didn't tell my parents because they'll both cry and scream at me. They'll tell me to take it off. Knowing how they are, they do things like that. It's funny because they like the guy but they don't like his race so they don't want me being with him, but they like him and say he's a sweet guy. 😂 I don't get it.
So I'm getting ready for the worst by leaving. They might disown me not only for dating someone against their will but also for leaving without advising them. I can already here them saying "we're mad not because of his race. It's because you hurt us without sharing anything with us." They'll say that so I look like the bitch who just left without sharing with them anything and they'll act like the innocent ones. I know it sounds like a slap in the face and they're going to learn it the hard way. As mean as it sounds, they'll get a taste of their own medicine when I'm gone. I've put up with this racism and hatefulness for 6 years so now its my time to be happy and they can decide for themselves to love me or disown me. It's a very very very sad situation and I'm completely lost and don't know what to expect. The relationship between my parents and my boyfriend is very strange and unusual. They get along when they see each other but I feel my parents put on a fake face with him for my sake and I can feel it. And because my boyfriend feels the "heaviness," he doesn't feel comfortable around them sometimes but he pushes himself to stay calm and chat with them for my sake as well. I'm stuck between the two now ...
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