Thoughts? Having to do with partying

Jacklynn
An old friend from hs & I recently reconnected and our babies are pretty much the same age (over a year old) We stopped talking bc her daughters dad was possessive of her and didn't want her having friends, I'm not the type to argue with a man who isn't mine so I left the decision in her court. They broke up and mind you we're both 21 going on 22. Since I've had my son I have gone out maybe 3 times, not saying going out makes you a bad parent just my personal preference to stay home with my babe. Well I thought we were on the same page and it turns out she's still acting the same way as if we were 18 again, drinking every night, playing around with narcotics (unfortunately I was one of those) She works at a bar as a waitress and messages me every night about how "fucked up she is" and how she just "popped a bar" her grandma watches her kid since she moved out her baby's dad house. And she has a new bf whom she's constantly sending me their drunk selfies. I don't judge but I can't help but feel like she's not the type of friend I'd want, like every night this week not even exaggerating she's put on fb how she's drinking or drunk, hanging out at 4 am with friends and it makes me feel bad for the little girl she has. Kinda disappointed in her as well I feel like she's the type that makes us young moms look bad. If it was every weekend I don't think I would feel this way towards her but it's every day. Not to mention on multiple occasions she would tell me to go visit her at work and get "fucked up"with her and when I'd explain I really don't like doing stuff like that anymore she'd ignore it and tell me to make my SO watch our son so i could be free, I'd tell her it's not that he wouldn't it's that i don't have the desire too ,she'd dismiss it & ask again the next day. I don't think she's a bad mom entirely I hope no one assumes I'm saying that but I don't agree with how she's being and I'm not sure if I even would want her around my son especially if she's taking pills like like. Here's a conversation from earlier today and her bf is the one who commented under.

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