Lazy unhappy boyfriend

My boyfriend is starting to get on my nerves. We have been together 4 years, mostly through uni, and moved in together before Christmas. I work full time 9-5. He at first didnt work for about 3 months, now he works shifts in a pub which he constantly complains he hates. Today my friend is giving him a trial shift in a cafe but he complains he doesnt want to do it. BUT he wont look for other jobs! I found him both of these! 
If he truly hates them both then all he has to do is look and try out others he can find, but he won't. Its getting really tiring and feels like I live with a teenager. Every time I tell him this it starts an argument.

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