this bitch...

So a couple of years ago a "friend" decided to try and get my then Bf (now fiancé) to cheat on me with her. After almost a freaking decade of friendship she told him "we aren't really friends" and continued to FB message him, Snapchat him, got his number from FB and texted him constantly. She had a BF (who is now her husband) who is in the military. She had no issue trying to get with my man while her man was gone. Shit, even while he was here! I asked her to leave him alone and he did too. Until times got rocky around my 6 month of pregnancy when he got scared about becoming a dad and left me and decided to talk to her after all WHILE SHE STILL HAD A MAN. Luckily they never met in person... as far as I know. They both said they never did. Anyway, after a month of me crying almost 24/7, barely able to get out of bed I was so devastated... one night I let anger get the best of me, told him off, and all of the sudden I began to gush blood. My placenta had torn and the life of our son was in danger. That put his ass back in perspective and he realized what an asshole he had been and blocked her from everything. We were able to work things out and we were amazingly able to keep our son cooking until exactly 36 weeks! Stayed a couple of extra observation days but miraculously no no I time was needed! Even after he told her to stop and he blocked her, she made alternate accounts to get at him and would text him through text apps. All of the sudden she snapchats him saying she and her bf are pregnant. Again I went off! Why did she need to tell him especially through a random ass fake Snapchat?? Anyway, I told her if she kept on I would send her BF everything she has sent/shown my fiancé bc there wasn't a damn thing my man kept from me. He showed me everything, every time. And boom, suddenly she stopped. I never once told her man anything. Anyway, she just posted a post about loyalty to her man over seas and is like "women who cheat on their deployed SO make me sick" and was telling others like "it's just awful how some girls are. Some even have men lined up for when their man is gone." I instantly got that "wtf" feeling over my whole body and a hot flash went all over. I wanted to call her out so damn bad!!!! Like youuuuu hypocrite. That is exactly what you did!! Tried to take my man from me as your back up dude!! BUT I didn't. People can change. Maybe she has. I would seriously hope she has. Cheating on ANYONE, military or not, is disgusting. I just had to vent since I didn't tell her off lol