PCSing to Oki

Ok so I'm a little upset but I've been in the military life since I was born. 2 weeks ago my SO and I were told we were PCSing to Oki and had to be there by next month. Any ladies with any advice to keep my stress levels down? Or any ladies in Oki that can help me out with information on child care/hospitals/housing/jobs? Oh yea and we still haven't heard from the command or our sponsor over there so we've basically been flying blind in trying to get everything done so quickly.