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Just on the vaccines.
Your children/ Their children
Do you judge parents who spank their children just because you personally don't with your own children?
Do you judge parents who chose to have unvaccinated children, just because you vaccinate your own children?
Do you judge breastfeeding mothers because you chose to make it a strictly private thing with your own children?
Do you judge parents who homeschool, unschool, etc. because you chose to have your children in public/private schools?
These of course can all be vice versa. Ex.
Do you judge parents who don't spank their children because you choose to do so with your own?
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I do judge parents who don't give their children vaccinations because they simply don't want to. I don't believe in spanking, and I know for a fact, there are other ways to discipline children. However, I won't judge them. It's their child, not mine. I would direct them to other strategies, but never judge.
Mi
Thank you for commenting with your opinion 😊
Vaccinations yeah I judge. I'm also the one shooting looks when that disrespectful ass kid people refuse to spank is acting up throwing things at strangers. Like "GIRL spank that little asshole already!" Kids will be close fist smacking their moms in the face , and she's over there like "little tummy use your words" 0_o? HE JUST HIT U SMACK THAT ASS!!!
Ch
Lol little Timmy ever slap me I'm 👋🏽 his ass right back 😂totally agree I have 4 girls and yes I do discipline them but if I gotta call them by there whole name girl she knows she getting a ass whooping not really a beat down but a spanking ur dam right
As
I wish I could up vote this 100000000000 times.
I don't judge any of the above listed, what I do judge is when I see parents giving their toddlers and children soda... that really gets under my skin 🙄
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Children don't need soda, simple as that. I don't feel that treats should be highly caffeinated, sugared, aspartamed filled empty calories personally.
El
Why? When I was a kid soda was treat. It's not going to kill them. Heck I drank soda all through high school and never got a cavity. Still haven't and I'm 22.
No on all of them...everyone parents different...why judge the next parent...make sure your hands are clean before you do...not everyone lives in the same environment!
Ru
your welcome Miranda!
Mi
Definitely agree, thank you for commenting with your opinion ☺️
Ru
Thanks....I wouldn't want to be judged the only one that can is God...he doesn't like ugly
NoNoNoNo, my best friend openly breastfeeds, homeschools and doesnt vaccinate. I will no openly breastfeed, won't homeschool and will vaccinate. Shes doing what works best for her and her family, ill do what works for mine.Have we had basic convos about our choices? Yes, but that's it, convos no arguments And the friendship is very strong.
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She will be coming when my child is born, along with her youngest. So yes
Ka
Is your friendship strong enough that her in vaccinated children will be able to be apart of your baby's life, or will you keep them away until your baby's is fully vaccinated? No being smart here just honestly what to know.
Question to your question: if I choose something with my child and advocate for it and believe not doing it would be harmful or have negative consequences and it's best for my family, does that make me judgemental to those that don't make the same choice as I do? Example: I choose to breastfeed. I believe it has great benefits for my child and would never choose to use formula. I personally don't not care at all how someone else feeds their child, but when asked I will 100% advocate for breastfeeding and would not/do not use formula. Does that make me judgemental?
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You're right. Statistically 2% of women cannot breastfeed. The rest make a choice not to. So for those 2% of women who have the choice of formula or starve, formula is definitely best!
Ma
some woman can not breast feed. Fed is best in my opinion.
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No. As long as you don't judge others for formula feeding. That doesn't make you judgmental.
I judge the first two, but not for the reasons listed. I judge them because both have research proving the repercussions of those things (not vaccinate/ spank kids). Plus it's extremely obvious that anyone who spanks their kids generally has zero understanding of how behavior works. If your kids are having such horrible behaviors that you then think about putting your hands on them, TALK TO A PROFESSIONAL
Mi
If you are indeed spanking the child the way it is meant to be done, not physically abusing the child, then it doesn't have the potential of harming the child. And I've nannied kids and could not spank them because I wasn't their parent. In that situation, my only option was positive reinforcement. But some of those kids literally the only way they would have straightened up is to get spankings. You'll see one day. You're gonna say these things and then have a child who doesn't listen, who NEEDS a spanking but you won't be willing to.
St
Positive reinforcement is highly effective and doesn't have the potential of harming the child. I work with kids with severe behavioral issues, and I've never once thought gay any of them needed a spanking. That's just ridiculous
C
Spanking can be very effective when executed correctly.
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