My fiances grandma is so rude about things and it really gets to me.

I know most people will say 'oh she's just old and set in her ways' but she's really bothering me.

It's the snide little comments about my parenting, my house, my relationship.

My fiance was due home from work and she said 'well i don't smell any dinner cooking'

She came over this morning and just before she left she said 'don't worry I'm sure you'll make me a drink next time' - yes I forgot to ask her if she wanted a drink but was that necessary?

She HATES the name we picked for our son.

He's only 10 weeks old, but every time she comes over it's 'Well do you want him to be bullied in school?' ' Oh you poor baby with that name' 'I'm not calling him by that name because i dont like it' 'I thought I'd convinced Jack to change his name but you got your own way'

It actually hurts sometimes I dread her coming over.

The thing is she never does it around my fiance, so when I tell him he just kind of brushes it off or says she just doesnt hide what she's feeling.