No future?

Question

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and this morning we had a pretty serious conversation about the future. The issue here is he hates my mother and stated that he would never ever be related to her... he has stated before that he doesn't like the idea of marriage because his parents ended up so screwed up but I was very upset that he inadvertently closed off any sort of future with me.... we have said I love you and I do believe he means it when he says it but is that enough if there isn't a real future for us? I just don't know what to think about this situation....

Edit: I forgot to mention that I already do not speak with my mother because of her habits and how she has treated me. 
Also my boyfriend has stated that he was ready to marry his ex before she screwed him over so I don't know exactly how off the table marriage is to him

Answer

You're only four months in.  Run while you can..  clearly you two want two different things so save yourself the heartbreak.

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I know for a fact that eventually I want to get married (like years down the road). And he told me that he was ready to marry his ex girlfriend before she cheated on him which ended their relationship. So I know I won't change my mind about the subject but there is a high chance he could change his mind because after all he also originally said he was not planning on being in a serious relationship or saying I love you and both of those changed

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Just go with the flow of things. Don't be too attached and always be careful of your heart. About him disliking your mother...that's disrespectful of him to say such things. I would personally leave someone if they judged my family members like that!! Also, if you think that this relationship might not work out, go with your gut feeling. Remember that their are 7.9 billion people in the world. So "a lot of fishes in the sea" 😂But for real though, all the best!

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If marriage he to happen for you then maybe this isn't thebguy for you. You can't say ok now and 3-5 years down the line change your mind and want marriage. He's already told you he doesn't. If never getting married is ok then stay. If you want to get married then this isn't the guy for you. At least he told you ahead of time while it's stil early and can decide if you want to stay. Been with my guy 4.5 years im not in any rush to get married any time soon nd he knows that. I'm 38 he's 28. I've never felt the im getting old or everyone else is why aren't we. On the contrary most people I know have already divorced at least once from people I went to high school with. I'm taking my time. But figure out what you want honestly. If it's marriage then that's your deal breaker. Don't stay in hopes he will change his mind and he doesn't 3 years from now.

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