Am I wrong?

When my fiancé and I found out we were pregnant, we ofcourse told our parents first. Well his mom right away asks "can I be in the delivery room", I nicely said no because my mom isn't going to be in there. The only person I want in the room is my fiancé. She got mad and upset, and then asked three more times after that. Now that we are getting closer to the due date we told her that I didn't want anyone at the hospital (no visitors). I would rather not have an audience while breast feeding and bonding with my soon to be son. She flipped out, told my fiancé that she wants to be in the room. He once again told her no, because that's not what I want. And she said well I'm GOING to be there the day he's born and see him. He nicely told her that I don't want any visitors (again). And she proceeded to cry and say that we are trying to keep her grandson away from her, and that she doesn't want to wait until we are home with the baby to see him. (I said a few people can come over and see him the DAY we get home). I also told my fiancé that the day he comes home I don't want anyone kissing on the baby's face. Which she got pist about as well. Said it was crazy things that I wanted. Cried and cried to my fiancé and completely making it seem like I'm wrong for all this. Does anyone else have issues with there mother in law like this? Sorry needed to vent.