Should I let my bestfriend adopt my baby?

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I got 3 bestfriends. A(man) B(girl) and C(girl). A and B are engaged. Last week I found myself pregnant and I'm having abortion in 3days. They all disagree with me getting an abortion but they support my decision. A is busy with work and B is busy with final exam. So because C is not busy they decided C is going to accompany me trough all of this while B keep checking on me. Today B told A that I'm pregnant and having abortion, my friend B and C are super sad. B told A that I'm going to have a really cute baby for some kind of reason and somehow it ended up with A and B want to adopt my baby. My friend B got PCOS and doctor told her it would be difficult to have a baby. A just talked to me about it but they want the father of my baby to be responsible to at least helping me trough my pregnancy. Now I'm confused because this morning I want to terminate my pregnancy and now I'm having second thoughts. I'm kinda upset to them because eventough they support me, they keep bringing up about keeping the baby which always lead me to having 2nd thought. I love them more than anything and if they want a baby I'll give mine to them, I trust them but I can't do it now. I'm in the middle of final exam too and taking a gap year or whatever it is not a choice for me.

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First, yes it's 100% your choice, talk to friend C, she may be less biased than A&B.;
Second, and I think someone already said this, but to emphasize its importance: if friends A & B are saying they'll adopt, then they need to sign that all NOW. They can not obligate the father to pay for anything, legally so that's not a good contingency. If you wait to sign adoption until after the pregnancy, you do so at great risk to yourself if they back out once the baby is born. Again IF you decide to let them adopt, don't wait, you can arrange terms for pregnancy care, but if you go that route, get that figured out ASAP. Learn your rights as the bio-mom, they are important protections for you.
Best of luck!

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No one can make you have the baby. If you don't want to have the baby, then continue your original plan, but let them know. If you do want to have the baby to give to your friends have a contract made up by a lawyer or adoption agency, to make sure they are serious. There are always other families looking for babies if they change their mind and you just don't want the abortion. No shame in it if you go through with the abortion. It's all up to you. Your body, your choice.

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Well, do what you want to do it's your body. But if you didn't tell them no first it will break their heart to say it now because they assumed and got their hopes up. But they should have knew better because you have the choice to do what you want they can't force you to keep a baby. 
They might not talk to you after this. But thats not your fault.

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I think you should do what's best for you, I think it would be great if you went through it and they adopted.... but that being said, would you be able to see your friends raise what you know is your baby and loving it as their own? Itsa very hard thing to go through... Also being pregnant and doing school and stuff is not AS hard as everyone makes it out to be, an if you think you want to do that then go for it, in sure you'll do wonderful. Another thing, if they want to adopt and you go through with it and let them then they need to help with ANY expenses and help you make it to drs apts, and make sure you have what you need. But definitely do what is best for you and don't let anyone judge you for your decisions. Best of luck you you girly!

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You need to do what's best for you and no one else. This is your body and your pregnancy.
I understand your friends are trying to help you, and I understand their desire to adopt your baby as I also have PCOS and am struggling with infertility. But if that scenario is not right for you for any reason, you shouldn't be made to feel guilty about whatever choice you need to make. It may sound simple to allow them to adopt the baby, but it will be a complicated situation and will definitely affect your friendship(s), so you need to be sure that's really what you want to do, before you do it. 
If you still have time (I'm not sure how far along you are) maybe you can push back the procedure for a few days to think about it.

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You have every right to be upset with them over it. I feel like they are putting their needs and desires before yours. 
You are the only one who can decide whether or not you want to have a baby. They can't do that, and they can't get all upset at you if you decide you don't want to go through nine months of pregnancy. 
There is also an abortion support group. You may get better advice there with people who have experienced a similar situation.

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I understand your friends so much BUT you are the one being pregnant. 
Would you be able to go through a pregnancy? It is hard emotionally and physically.
Would you be able to give up your baby once born?
Would you be able to see that baby with your friends?
Would the baby know you are its birthmother?
Are you sure they would adopt as promised?
Would you regret having an abortion later on?
Would they accept if you didn't give up your baby anyways?
I hope you find out what is best. Love and hugs from here.

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I'm sure they just don't want you to make a choice you'll regret later and they're worried you will. It sounds like they want to meet your baby too. I wouldn't hold it against them.

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You need to do what's best for you x

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