Let’s talk about anal. *UPDATE*

My SO asks me to try anal with him. I’ve done it before with a previous partner but was not a fan and I never tried again. I never actually told him no to trying I just told him “ when you let me strap up and put it in your ass than you can put it in mine.” He didn’t like that idea and said “ that is not fair.” Haha FAIR he said not fair! 😤😤😤 As if there was a hierarchy of assholes and his was above mine. What is the obsession with butt holes and men. Every man I’ve been with has asked me for anal. I’m not even scared of the pain.... I’m scared of shitting on you! What is you take on anal?

UPDATE!

Okayyyy ladies! I did not think this topic would get so much attention and I have read every comment. There was so much positive feedback about anal it really got me thinking. What if I’m completely wrong here? I have in my head that anal is painful, shit filled taboo because of one bad experience with a guy who clearly had no idea what he was doing.

Sooo after weeks of debating with myself I decided I wanted to give it another try. I waited until we were in the middle of our adult activities last night to bring up that I want to give it another try. He was completely caught off guard and needed reassurance that I was 100% positive about this. My man is the most loving and gentle individual I have ever met. He made me feel so comfortable and helped me relax. What I thought was so horrible turned out to be a really great experience for us both. It was neither painful or messy. I do believe this experience helped our relationship grow a little stronger. Not because of anal itself but because of the trust and love that comes along with it. I now have given myself to him completely. Thank you ladies for helping me get over my fear of something that can be so great.