My Egg is playing an epic game of 'Where's Waldo'

My husband and I are approaching our 5th attempt with IUI. My RE, from the beginning, has been a HUGE IVF pusher. She wanted to skip steps A-D...I'm keen to these steps because a close friend of mine faced a similar problem. First, I should mention, that I am lop-sided and only have one fallopian tube. HOWEVER, I am still very capable a getting pregnant. Our current RE is...lazy? Only very basic protocol. Monitoring was only done after I suggested it. Needless to say, I'd love some positive energy in regards to success after multiple IUI attempts. We're giving our RE one last shot, and then switching. She's lacks compassion...hasn't communicated with us ONCE since we began IUIs *sigh*...should have switched sooner