My Egg is playing an epic game of 'Where's Waldo'

My husband and I are approaching our 5th attempt with <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. My RE, from the beginning, has been a HUGE <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> pusher. She wanted to skip steps A-D...I'm keen to these steps because a close friend of mine faced a similar problem. First, I should mention, that I am lop-sided and only have one fallopian tube. HOWEVER, I am still very capable a getting pregnant. Our current RE is...lazy? Only very basic protocol. Monitoring was only done after I suggested it. Needless to say, I'd love some positive energy in regards to success after multiple <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> attempts. We're giving our RE one last shot, and then switching. She's lacks compassion...hasn't communicated with us ONCE since we began IUIs *sigh*...should have switched sooner