Cutting ties

Has anyone ever felt like you’re better off not speaking to your family and it actually worked for the better? In the process of moving soon with SO and I’m pretty sure once I’m out I won’t be really be speaking to my family as much. I’ve always felt my entire life that I don’t fit in and if it weren’t for my kids I’d probably never speak to them at all. I’ve been the outcast, the one they always talk shit about and honestly I really do believe once I move out and there’s less communication everything would be 10x better. Has anyone experienced something similar?