Need to vent and have no where else to go

So this year a lot has gone on and now to add to it my husband is ill 😷, he's been pretty sick for a few months but the army hasn't done anything about it but recently he got sick of all his issues and went to the hospital instead sense then the army now gives a damn and is caring for him the way they should have been the whole time. We are hoping he's fine or that it's not a big deal but the way it's looking my husband has to many problems to count, starting to wonder how he got in the army to begin with sense finding out about all the stuff that's going on with him. Because of this tho we most likely won't be going on Christmas leave which makes me a little sad as I haven't seen any of my family sense July and now won't be able to see them for another 6 months 😔. With this and everything that's gone on before this being around family would be great right now.