Am I Wrong

So me and my husband have been trying for over a year now for baby #1. He’s 25 and I’m 24 so we started the infertility process back in August of last year and the only thing he had to do was get a semen analysis well his count came back low and the doctor ordered a second test back in November but it’s January later and he still hasn’t gone and done the second test but he constantly complains that his manhood is hurt that he can’t have kids and I’m just like go get it fix. Go do the second analysis 🤦🏾‍♀️. But then he complains that he doesn’t have time because of work. He’s active duty military. My issue that you don’t have time because of work because you don’t take five minutes to ask you superiors if you can go to the appointment. So I decided to get back on birth control because it’s been a complete waste of time and it’s been a huge issue and he’s been pissed every since about. But it’s not fair to me I’ve done my part for the infertility and he hasn’t. Like I’m at the point if we don’t have kids I want a divorce because he said he doesn’t want to adopt and i doubt our insurance will cover IVF.