SO glad this group is here!

I know I’m a little late but I do actually get tired of the “god will give me my baby soon” stuff. No judgment at all-I just don’t believe it works like that, and I never know what to say to it. If I’m not able to have kids or if it’s taking awhile, I really believe it’s because SOMETHING is wrong with my body-not that some celestial being is withholding my baby!

I lost our son at 22 weeks. I swear if anyone had dared to say “it was just God’s will” I would have punched them in the face. NO it was not “god’s” will. I had severe preeclampsia and H. E. L. L. P. Syndrome. I desperately want to try again but I have to wait until MY BODY is strong enough-not until some higher power gives me the thumbs up!

Looking forward to sharing a thoroughly non-religious journey with you ladies!!