UPDATE: He cancelled our date THREE times...

My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 3 1/2 years and I'm currently 14 weeks pregnant. I've been working 6 nights a week, going to school full time 4 days a week, and I we haven't had a lot of time to spend with each other since we don't live together yet. Well one of the one days I have off (Last Sunday), he said he would take me on a date. But the day before our date, he got very sick. And since I don't want to get sick while I'm pregnant, so we scheduled our date for Wednesday because I had two days off instead of one. My mom had to take him to the ER on Wednesday morning because he was having severe ear pain and it turned out he had an ear infection. Obviously, we didn't go on our date then either. We rescheduled for today (Sunday), and he said he's been puking all morning. I feel really bad for him because he's been sick, but I'm also just really frustrated because I haven't been able to see him in nearly 2 weeks. I'm worried about him because he's been sick so much. And I don't know if the hormones or what but all I want to do is cry.

UPDATE: Sorry I'm so selfish. He told me to stay away because he doesn't want to get me sick. I didn't know doing what he asked of me was considered selfish. I've asked him over and over again if he needs anything, but he always says no. Ever since I found out I'm pregnant he's super protective of me and he won't let me take care of him. I wanted to bring him some things after he went to the ER and he said "think of the baby, you can't get sick now".

I'm in no way upset with him. I'm sorry I didn't make that clear in the original post.

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